What a gross jerk. You need to get out of there immediately. Is there a friend you can stay with? Can you talk to your dean about getting a place on campus (maybe someone's roommate left school)? If you explain the situation, I'm confident that your dean will be able to help you.

Once you're out of their house, call your aunt and ask her to meet you at a friend's house to talk about something important. The reason I want you there is so you can have your friend's support in case you need it (just make sure your friend isn't in the room when you talk to your aunt). When your aunt comes over, be honest.

But remember that what you're telling her has enormous consequences for her too. You can walk away from this bruised. She, on the other hand, is dealing with the father of her kids. It will be a bombshell, so be gentle. Just say, "It's hard for me to tell you this because I love you so much, but I had to leave your house because Uncle Loser (okay, don't call him that) was making me feel very uncomfortable physically."

Now, she may say something hurtful to you. Keep in mind that he may have told her that you've been coming on to him as a way to cover his tracks just in case you ever spoke up. Be patient. If she's angry, just tell her that you're sorry she feels that way, but you think it's important that she knows because you are worried about her kids. Tell her that you're grateful she gave you a place to stay when you needed it and that you hope in time she'll believe you. I would leave it at that. The real conversation won't be nearly as easy as I made it, but be strong-you've done nothing wrong.

If you have any questions or are concerned about your safety, call the Childhelp USA National Child Abuse Hotline at 800-422-4453. I'm sorry you have to go through this, Lyndsey.

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