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Husb's EX BFF called and told me that he had slept with 2 women is he tryn to get back @at me or tru
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Husb's EX BFF called and told me that he had slept with 2 women is he tryn to get back @at me or tru

My husband told his BFF that he couldn't hang anymore because I wouldn't let him. I believe his friend is involved in drugs. Our dog came up missing the day after my husband told him to leave. BFF was called and asked if he had the dog. He thought we were accussing him and threatening him so he called me and said that while me and my husband were separated that my husband was cheating on me with two women (his girlfriend's mother and another friend of his). How can I find out if he's telling the truth or just did this in a fit of anger. My husband swears on his mothers grave that he didn't sleep with any of these women. Oh my husband is expected to be getting a whole lot of money soon too. How can I found out who's telling the truth?

- Asked by A Do-Good Girl, Girl, 29-35

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Sometimes the truth is the very things you don't want to accept. Don't go around questioning everything, because you'll never get the truth that way, you'll get a different story from everyone. Just take some alone time and observe. If there are signs of cheating, then he's probably cheating. I don't know the deal with the dog, but if worst comes to worst, you don't want liars in your life. Be strong and do what's best for yourself.

- Response by stylecounciltameka, A Social Butterfly, Girl, 18-21, Student

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Hey, talk to your husband about it.
And even if he did sleep with other women while you were seperated. You were seperated.

The whole money thing shouldn't have anything to do with it. But if you were to divorce over this, the money he gets would be divided into two parts. Half for you and Half for him. (not that it should matter if you love your husband)

It maybe taht the friend is mad. But even so, like i said its not cheating if you were seperated.

- Response by A Social Butterfly, Girl, Toronto, 18-21, Student

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JUST GO ALONE WITH IT THE TRUTH WILL COME OUT EVENTUALLY

- Response by A Social Butterfly, Girl, 36-45, Self-Employed

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