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My best friends girlfriend just isn't right for him, should I confront him about it?
Friends & Family / 2:08 AM - Monday July 06, 2009

My best friends girlfriend just isn't right for him, should I confront him about it?

I'm the only one he listens to, but this girl just isn't right for him. He's really in love with her, but she's cheated on him before and is most likely going to do it again. What should I do?

- Asked by juliajavelin, A Trendsetter, Girl, 16, Student

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you can't confront him. b/c if he's with her he's under this illusion that she's perfect and he's in love with her. so by telling him she's all wrong and criticizing her he'll only end up mad at you and potentially closer to his girlfriend. i know it's hard have to watch loved ones make mistakes but you have to let them be. let them learn. the thing you can do is be there when he comes to realization and needs you to lean on.

- Response by An Arty Girl, Girl, 14

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Well, first off,
does he know she has cheated on him??
if he doesn't you really have to tell him,
and yeah, the best would be to tell him what is going on, and that she is not right for him, and that they need to break up, otherwise, he will be hurt, and you don't want that, do you??, but if he doesn't listen to you, well, don't push him, because eventually he will find out for himself, and when he does, don't say "I told you", that will make him feel worse for not listening to your advice :)
Hope I Helped

- Response by RoxyChannel92, A Social Butterfly, Girl, 13, London

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I disagree with Arty Girl; you should tell him. It might not be pretty, but he's your BEST FRIEND and he deserves to have you be honest with him, even if it hurts. If he does get mad, he WILL get over it. It might take a while, but he will. If you can, you could talk to his girlfriend first and ask about the cheating episode; she might have (and i use that loosely) changed since then, and is ready to be loyal. If that is obviously not the case, you need to talk to him immediately, before she tattles on you and says you hate her, or something stupid like that. He's going to figure out sometime that she cheated; what goes around comes around. Just be careful with how you word it; ease into the conversation gently and ask him if he knows about the cheating. If he has, express your concern for the situation. If he hasn't, take a deep breath and tell him all you know. You'll feel better about telling him, though you might feel bad if you hurt him. But all wounds heal with time. You'll make it through this.
Kooky

- Response by A Do-Good Girl, Girl, 15, Student

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talk to him and tell him that.
thats all i got to say girl

- Response by 15roxi79, A Trendsetter, Girl, 15

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talk to him
that girl has got to go

- Response by bbyhanna16, A Flirt, Girl, 16

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well he can make his own decisions..but if u reallly wanna then u can tell him that u dont like her and just warn him.

- Response by peacelvr, A Social Butterfly, Girl, 14, Los Angeles, Student

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well he can make his own decisions..but if u reallly wanna then u can tell him that u dont like her and just warn him.

- Response by peacelvr, A Social Butterfly, Girl, 14, Los Angeles, Student

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well he can make his own decisions..but if u reallly wanna then u can tell him that u dont like her and just warn him.

- Response by peacelvr, A Social Butterfly, Girl, 14, Los Angeles, Student

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