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| Friends & Family / 4:18 AM - Monday July 06, 2009 |
Okay well I kinda have this problem I feel like my life is falling apart!I've always been the kinda person who keeps everything inside and I never really minded that. I've also always kinda been chubby all my life again I've never really minded that! But my brother and dad (I don't live with my mom, divorce) think I should go to therapy because I never discuss my problems with them. My brother also thinks I should lose weight(recently I put on some weight and my brother told me that I was getting "big" my dad even says I should lose some weight. I'm 5' 6" and 178. Well everything just kinda hit me and all of yesterday I just stayed in my room and cried my family's had some issues when I was younger and I was always running from those problems now they caught up with me. I don't know how to talk to. Me and one of my best friends are fighting my world is falling apart! - Asked by An Arty Girl, Girl, 13, Student |
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hey, if you want to talk , i'm here.. i've been through a lot so i can probably understand if you want to vent!
- Response by Kayleigh33, A Social Butterfly, Girl, 16
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my family has been through a lot too, if you need to talk im here? :o)
- Response by lauraisat17, A Beauty Expert, Girl, 17, Baltimore
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ive never had tht prob but i want to give u some ideas. now i have no clue wat im saying but i wanna b a frend ok? i think maybe u should try therapy out. sometimes i feel like i should take therapy but i think id sound like a creeper if i asked if could take therapy. but u sound like u might of had some probs in the past nd need help dealing with them. i also have probs with sharing my emotions, nd i still have no clue on how to dealwith that but u need to keep trying bc the more u keep in the more u get damaged. loseing weight or atleast working out helps alot. i havent been working out but ive been watching what i eat nd ive lost 10 pds this summer already(if u wanna know how just message). i dont know about probs as a kid but i know ppl who do nd all u can do is just keeptrying bc there will be some sort of an outcome that u need to see. think of it this way if u give up nothing will ever change 4 u. but if u keeptrying to fix probs nd get stronger nd be more outgoing u do have some chance to have a posotive outcome. even if the chance is slim its better than just watching everything crumble down. if u have any ?'s i will do my best to answer.
- Response by leftyfriek95, A Do-Good Girl, Girl, 14, Student
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well you know. therapy could help you! its hard to talk to your family about things and even friend s sometimes. it might be nice to have someone you can always have there to talk to someone who will not judge you and wont start dramma or get mad at you. i think i would try it out and if you dont like it then dont do it. and it does not mean your crazy or anything if you go to therapy a lot of people go to it and it has really helpd them.good luck!
- Response by anniewigglie, A Flirt, Girl, 16, Who Cares?
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