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| Friends & Family / 5:43 AM - Saturday November 07, 2009 |
how can i tell her i ddnt mean 2 hurt her?i have a best friend that i knw for 4 years now..
- Asked by Girl, 16 |
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i think u shld talk 2 ur best friend explain that ur not delibrately leving her out but u jst missed ur other friend alot if shes ur best friend u 2 hav got 2 trust each other nd be honest. maybe u cld include ur best friend with things u nd ur other friend r doing so she feels less left out, nd also cldnt it be possible that the person who told u all this was tryin 2 stir things up? u asked how 2 tell her u didnt mean 2 hurt her,that shldnt be a problem uve been BEST friends 4 FOUR years,right? jst talk 2 her im sre shell understand.anyways,gd luck!
- Response by lilmizzbounce, A Social Butterfly, Girl, 14, Student
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She might be scared, or worried. She might think you'd reply and say that you're not neglecting her, or that you simply moved on to your old best friend. Maybe she wanted to give you space, but she wasn't sure on how to react or tell you she's hurt. Maybe she thought that things would fade out, and that they were suppose to be like that. The best way to get this over with is to talk to her directly about it. Better face to face. Don't accuse her, but tell her you noticed a change. If you want to stay best friends, then prove how much you want to stay that way - and show her you still care for her.
- Response by dansoccer, A Rock Star, Girl, 16, Student
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I just wanna tell you that I was the "ignored friend" after my friend started to hang out with her old best friend. They got matching shirts and had a bunch of sleepovers without me. I was extremely hurt and now I now we're not friends. One time my friend asked me if I was jealous and i was too ashamed to tell her that i was jealous and didnt want her to be mad at me. ODd numbers never work out with girls. HOw would you feel if your bff started hanging out with your old bff and left you out? and also she probably didnt tell you bcuz ur wayyyy tooo busy with your new bff and had to find someone else to confide in. Explain the situation to your old bff and make up with ur newer one
- Response by beezneez101, A Trendsetter, Girl, 13
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