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Im 15 and Ive never been kissed..or had a BF! =[
Guys / 5:48 PM - Thursday November 19, 2009

Im 15 and Ive never been kissed..or had a BF! =[

Im turning 16 in april and I havent even had a boyfriend yet. Ive also never been kissed and my friends get boyfriends all the time and i feel like im always left out. is there something wrong with me why guys dont like me?

- Asked by mznatxxbby27, A Trendsetter, Girl, 15, New York, Student

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I know what you are going through. Only I have had just one bf. It's kinda sad when your friends are going through bf's left and right. But that means that we are the types of girls that want to find the right bf, and we don't want a new one every week. When the right one comes along, we will find him. :)

- Response by golfingirl16, A Beauty Expert, Girl, 15, Student

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thats alright. you are still young. i know someone who is 17 right now and she never had a bf and of course, never been kissed. i always tell her that your first bf/kiss should be very very special and you should not give it away. and she's cool with that. she knows someday that someone will come on her way. =]

- Response by dera_28, A Social Butterfly, Girl, 17, Student

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Wow, that girl who replied is suck a JERK.

No nothing wrong with you. Maybe guys just see you as a friend. I have the same problem. My friends told me I gotta get more 'flirty'

SO maybe u should try to get talkin' flirty with a guy.

:D

GOOD LUCK!!

- Response by terrifairy94, A Flirt, Girl, 15, Seattle, Student

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Oh My God!
Honestly! I am 15 and im turning 16 on April 1st
and yes i have never had a boyfriend/kissed!
and your very normal! the only thing thats different about us the other girls is that were not desperate! we want the perfect guy.
I mean recently alot of guys have asked me out this year, but i said no. but its beacuse i dont see myself loving them, i want a guy that i can trust who can be there for me for a long time, not just like 3 days and done! NO! i want my 1st boyfriend to be someone i like to remember and love no matter what happens, NOT a regret!

- Response by jazjazzycarrot, A Social Butterfly, Girl, 15, Dallas

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Ohhh thats really bad,
i'm sorry to hear that but i dont have any advice that will
hepl you not to be such a loser sorry

- Response by sexylilgypsygirl, A Flirt, Girl, 16, Who Cares?

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noooooooooooo nothings wrong its jus ur the type who would go out with jus any guy..n thts ok

- Response by xlaugh2cutex, A Do-Good Girl, Girl, 16, Providence, Student

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I'm the same age (turn 16 in may) and i feel the exact same way! I look around at school and everyone is holding hands and kissing in the halls and i just don't understand why guys don't like me either! i think that guys don't approach me cause i'm kinda shy and more reserved so it could be the same for you! it's probably not that they don't like you, they just don't know how to approach you! good luck! maybe we'll both get a guy this year!lol

- Response by bananalanna, A Do-Good Girl, Girl, 15, Student

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omg ik how u feel im the same way! theres nothing wrong with u unles u have 14 noses or something lol. i just turned 13 today lol yaha and i never had a bf or anything so yeahhahah lolur not alone girly!

- Response by A Social Butterfly, Girl, 13, Detroit, Lawyer

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ur not weird. i have a friend whos 16 and shes never had a boyfriend even tho shes really nice and fun to be around

- Response by An Arty Girl, Girl, 13, Student

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i dont think that theres anything wrong with that!I bet guys notice you and you dont even notcie it and no of course theyre is nothing wrong with you silly!everything happens for a reason and beleive me your time will come and soon ibet.Alls you need to do is stay confident and know that your something speical.By the way i can totally relate seeing as i dont have a bf either!but i once heard a really good saying: Guys sometimes can be lazy at first and the go for the apples that are bruised and old because they're easy to get but someday theyll get the courage and go to the top of that tree ansd get the best apple there is. mznatxxbby27, thats us were the good apples the ones that are beuatyful inside and out, and when we do get guys theyre gonna care about us and be crazy for us, not looking for a one nght stand. hope that helped message me with more questions if you have any im glad to help =]!
P.S. i wasnt trying to diss anyone that does have a bf! sorry if it sounded like it!

- Response by rachieeeeeeeee, A Trendsetter, Girl, 15

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I've never been kissed either. I totally get what you mean. But I do have a boyfriend, and I kinda have a feeling I might kiss him, and Im really scared! and nervous! But im sure it's nothing with you. Because this boy im dating now is actually like the first boyfriend I have had that actually cares, and talks to me. I have had a few other boyfriends but things like never went the right away, like we hardly spoke, and all that. My friends always have boyfriends too, i feel the same way, i know exactly what you mean! Im sure things will end up working out for you. Its taken forever but, Im finally with someone I really like(: and im hoping that the whole not being kissed, will change soon. Goodluck!(:

- Response by tbaby9413, A Flirt, Girl, 15, Cleveland

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i didn't have a boyfriend till i was almost 16, like a month before i turned 16... : )

- Response by jessie9876, A Do-Good Girl, Girl, 16, Student

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No. Nothing is wrong with you. You just have to be yourself ALL the time and have some courage and bravery when/if you like a guy.

- Response by An Arty Girl, Girl, 14, Sacramento, Student

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yes i am 15 turning 16 july 12th and i had 1 experiance with a jerk and we didnt' date soo not offical but i havent been kissed but i heard dont look for mr.right pre pare for being mrs.right and mr, right will find you hope i helped but i hope all of our mr rights come soon the jerk award athe tops is such a freak get a life u freakk

- Response by bnc300, A Social Butterfly, Girl, 15

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i think its AWESOME you've never been kissed or had a boyfriend! i did when i was like...13, and we were together for a year but honestly i wish i wouldn't have cuz it was a hardd breakup because i really wasnt ready. it took forever to get over it and i think we both got really hurt in the process. so yeah i think its totally awesome and theres nothing wrong with you, the right guys just hasnt come along yet. :)

- Response by samaraem3101, A Sports Star, Girl, 15

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Don't sweat it. I'm 17 and I've never had a bf/kiss yet. It's really sad, I know, and sometimes you feel like there is something wrong with you. But honestly, there is nothing wrong with you. When the perfect guy comes around, he will. We just have to be patient!

- Response by sundaeluver, A Trendsetter, Girl, 17

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well you will find the right one for you(:
maybe its a good thing that u havent had a kiss
that means u havent had ur heart broken and u wont regret it i promise (:

- Response by jocelynn2815, A Flirt, Girl, 15, Student

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No hunny. Nothing is wrong with You. Your still young. You will find somebody some day. Your time will come, so don't rush it! <3.

- Response by kristinalovesevan, A Social Butterfly, Girl, 17

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i hope its normal! cuz i'm in the same situation as you girl! but mine might actually be worse because i just turned 16! my friends haven't even had bf's either. they have all been asked out just not by the right guy. i haven't been asked out or have never had a bf/kissed. so don't worry about it! you'll find the right guy someday!<3

- Response by strawberrygirl16, A Trendsetter, Girl, 16

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there's definately nothing wrong with you. i didn't have my first boyfriend or my first kiss till i was 17!

- Response by Randomahcity23, A Social Butterfly, Girl, 18-21, Food Service

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there's definately nothing wrong with you. i didn't have my first boyfriend or my first kiss till i was 17!

- Response by Randomahcity23, A Social Butterfly, Girl, 18-21, Food Service

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there is nothing wrong with you. give it time besides 15 year old boys don't know how to do it anyways lol

- Response by babalicous1, A Techie, Girl, 17, Student

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i was the same way. i just broke up with my first bf and we were only together for 6 months. maybe yur not flirty enough. set yur sites on a guy and don't be shy!! that was always my mistake. yu just have to put yourself out there and hope that he will like you back. don't worry there's nothing wrong with you, you are probly the type that doesn't want to get hurt and who doesn't want to trust their heart to just anyone. there's no rush.

- Response by uchs2010, A Flirt, Girl, 17

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Ahh it's okay, there's nothing wrong with you! My brother is almost 17 and has never had a girlfriend, and it's not like he's a freak or anything! He's actually really "popular" and all that! I haven't had a boyfriend yet and i'm only a few days away from being 15, so you're definitely not alone. It justs means we're more picky. Have you ever heard that story about how the best apples are at the top of the tree, and the right boy just has to climb up a little higher and try harder to get them? That's what i like to say to myself.
There's a good chance that you'll be the one that ends up in longer relationships that last, and that when someone asks how your first kiss went, you can say it was actually great!

- Response by jmobssessed94, An Eco Chick, Girl, 15, Artist / Musician / Writer

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dont worry about it girl your time will come soon enough ... the wost thing you could do is try to rush things because if u do u might get caught in a stick situation that is going to be realy hard to get out of .

- Response by gissellerod0214, A Social Butterfly, Girl, 16, Other Profession

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dont rush anything when you do finally get kissed it will most definitely be worth the wait. just be patient and hang in there girl! :)

- Response by karliawesome45, A Flirt, Girl, 17, Other Profession

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I just got one and im a freshman. theres most def nothing wrong with u. fate will give you your soulmate eventually and you wont have to worry. :) dont freak out. and its always good to have really close guy friends you can hang woth. :D

- Response by lilypirateprinccess, A Social Butterfly, Girl, 14

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Don't worry. I'm 16 and I just got my first kiss a week ago! So nothing's wrong with you. Maybe guys are intimidated by you. That's the way it was with my mom. She's really pretty and shy but she always had to ask guys out because they said they were intimidated by her and thought she already had a boyfriend so they thought there was no point in asking. You could try flirting. And I didn't get my first boyfriend until I was 15.

- Response by river72, A Social Butterfly, Girl, 17

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Don't worry. I'm 16 and I just got my first kiss a week ago! So nothing's wrong with you. Maybe guys are intimidated by you. That's the way it was with my mom. She's really pretty and shy but she always had to ask guys out because they said they were intimidated by her and thought she already had a boyfriend so they thought there was no point in asking. You could try flirting. And I didn't get my first boyfriend until I was 15.

- Response by river72, A Social Butterfly, Girl, 17

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i know how you feel im 15(will be 16 in june) and i havent had any of those things yet either. It feels like every one in this world is with someone expetually friends. my friends are on there 3 or 4th bf and its sucks but i see it in a good way. Cuz these are the best years of our lifes and i rather have fun then worry why didnt he call me.
I bet some guy likes you but you just dont see it but theres nothing wrong with you! the right guy hasnt come along and when he dose it will last really long cuz he'll be mature. so who cares if you dont have a bf or any of thoughs things yet! just have fun while you can and on that way you will find a bf and you'll be happy:)
hoped i helped

- Response by stacerz5, An Arty Girl, Girl, 15, Student

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so do I..and i've asked myself the same question many times

but when i think of the choices that i have none of those boys is worth it.. there is only one guy that's worth it but i don't know if he likes me..
so don't worry i really think that we're not missing anything .. and something is always better when it happens at the right age and time.. and your friends are all going to get bored or run out of guys and then they sill start liking second quality boys and it goes on and on

- Response by elina94gr, A Social Butterfly, Girl, 16, Athens

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me neither girl! I'm 14 and i don't even think a guy has ever had a crush on me.. but you know your time will come, you just have to be patient, and confident, and realize that it's not you causing the problem, guys just like to go after all the easy girls... they don't even start to notice girls like us until they get older an more mature. Just hang in there, everything will eventually come around!

- Response by mangotango95, A Trendsetter, Girl, 15, Student

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dont worry. dont rush either :)

there is NOTHING wrong with that. in fact it makes you a smart person. girls who have a new boyfriend every week are the girls who, no offense, dont think things through and NEED that. it gets them into trouble.
youre like me. you wont go out with someone just to go out with them. you'll go out with them because you REALLY care about them. and that makes all the difference.
youre lmost 16, you have so much time. and one day that guy will come who will be who youve been holding out for i promise :)

- Response by filmgirl23, An Arty Girl, Girl, 17

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i'm 14 (15 in january) and i never had a bf either. i don't mind though, cause i like flirting with guys(; also never been kissed(: my friends have tried gettting me to date some guys, but i didn't want tooo:p i don't think i'm ready for that(: nothing is wrong with you(:

- Response by misspch, A Beauty Expert, Girl, 15, New York, Student

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listen i'm 16 and the same. but things change if you don't think about guys they will come to you. Trust me you have no idea how many guys have offered me things now.

- Response by claricebear, A Flirt, Girl, 16, Detroit

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I'm 14 (15 in December) and I never had a boyfriend or kissed a boy. There is nothing to be ashamed of. Some don't get one till their 20's. My uncled is in his 40's(late I think) and finally got engaged after all these years. Just be patient, someone will come.

- Response by thefriendlygirl, A Techie, Girl, 15, Who Cares?

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guys look 4 girls tht have ass and boobs.i had never had a boyfreind until this year we were going out for 2 weeks only.its good tht u dont have a boyfreind because boys cheat on girls and sometimes use girls 2 get other girls and boys will kiss other girls when ur not with them.this happend 2 me and i waz crying for 1 whole month.try dressing up sexy because i did this and it worked 2 get the 1 boy i waz goin out with this year.thts all i got if i got anything else i will tell u.oh yea i didnt have boobs i dressed up sexy.well good luck.i will try 2 help u.anything i tell u might work because i did this and i got to go out with me.so if i write to u again try it,it might work,it worked 4 me.good luck.

- Response by A Rock Star, Girl, 14

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same here. except that I'm 16.
i bet there is a boy that likes you, but sometimes they're too shy lol.
but it's okay, there's nothing to worry about. :)

- Response by A Trendsetter, Girl, 16, Student

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No. There is nothing wrong with you. I have a friend who is the same way and she is amazing and gorgeous. It could mean you're too shy or just too picky. Just don't be desperate. Let a great guy find you. He'll come eventually. But, meanwhile, a little flirting never hurt anyone. :)

- Response by varsitycheer28, A Social Butterfly, Girl, 17, Student

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nope! im the same way except im 14. u r fine the way u r and u will eventually find the guy who likes u. dont rush, love in high school isnt worth it from what i know. :]

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- Response by ricebunny08, A Pop Culture Queen, Girl, 15

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I have the same kinda situation, i have had alot of bf's but have only made out once.... my best friend is exactily the same as you. we were actuilly just talking on the phone and we decided that there is something wrong with us, but reading these responses i realized that this is very common :)) so dont sweat it. i'm not going to anymore.

- Response by kirsten_covington, A Social Butterfly, Girl, 15

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your first bf & kiss should be special ! Its ok if you dont ! im in the same situation ! & plus nothing is wrong its just some guys r too nervous to say that the like someone !!

- Response by starbyheart, A Pop Culture Queen, Girl, 15, Los Angeles, Student

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I think ur first kiss will be special. Mine was when i was 12 and i was kind of drunk and me and this guy made out... yeah wasent that great :((. But the older u get the better it gets

- Response by americanmetro122, A Social Butterfly, Girl, 16, Student

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im 17 and never had a bf or ive never been kissed.. but i like this kid in my school though

- Response by starbuck4life16, A Beauty Expert, Girl, 17, New York

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It's ok im 14 and a have never had either lol. There's nothing wrong w/ u. :D

- Response by A Do-Good Girl, Girl, 14, Student

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theres nothing wrong with u! some people just lik to wait but i hav had 5 bf and had sex 2 times but still theres nothing wrong with u!

- Response by celticsgirlOMG, A Flirt, Girl, 13

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i know how it feeels =/

its okay. just remember there ARE girls like you

- Response by A Trendsetter, Girl, 15

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im turning 16 in april too, and ive never had a bf

- Response by volleyball669, A Social Butterfly, Girl, 15, New York

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I'm 16 and I never had any of that;
so don't feel bad!
I feel left out all the time, but whatever when I find the right guy, I'll know!

- Response by A Beauty Expert, Girl, 16

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I have been 16 since September and i have never been kissed and i have never had a boyfriend. I am a junior in highschool. im in the same siuation if not worst.

- Response by oliviaxo93, A Trendsetter, Girl, 16

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I'm the same age as you and havent either

- Response by A Do-Good Girl, Girl, 16

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- Response by gissellerod0214, A Social Butterfly, Girl, 16, Other Profession

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