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| Friends & Family / 4:32 PM - Friday November 20, 2009 |
friendd dramaa. please help. ill give stars.=]okay see there is this girl name mary kate and this other girl taylor. mary kate and taylor and me are like all best friends, but i feel like i am kinda not included that much. mary kate and taylor hand out without me sometimes or they would tell me to come last minute. i mean like i am kinda get of tired. i have other friends dont get me wrong. but they are not my best friends and i couldnt imagine them getting replaced by marykate and taylor.am i overreacting? or am i just jelouss.can you please give me advice. this is driving me crazy - Asked by princessgurliex, A Social Butterfly, Girl, 15, Student |
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I know exactly what you mean, I've been in the same situation myself. It's difficult because you don't know if you are over reacting or if there if some truth behind your thoughts. I'd recommend just talking to them, as awkward as it may feel. Just say you feel kind of left out but didnt want to over react and thought it best that you talk to them about it. That way they should respect your position and listen to what you have to say. If they didnt realise how you felt, then greatm you can sort it out. If things dont go to plan then see how things go with them after that, give them and yourself some space and spend more time with your other friends for a bit, it will give all of you some time to get a better perspective on how you all feel.
- Response by paperwishes, A Trendsetter, Girl, 17, London, Student
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i think you are a little jealous. i mean, i can be like this soo. it's not really bad or anything, it just means that you are feeling left out and you don't like the situation so what i think you need to do is sit mary kate and taylor both down and exsplain to them that you feel left out and ame some examples. like you can't really avoid this talk if you want to make things better. and i think you just really need to explain to them that by you not being included in a little more things is hurting your feelings. now this doesn't mean that they're goin to include you in EVERY SINGLE THING, it just means that you'll be included in more.
- Response by mctray90, A Beauty Expert, Girl, 14, Student
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this exact same thing happened to me a year ago, now they're bestfriends (without me) but I'm happy about it!
- Response by hbgirly, A Social Butterfly, Girl, 15
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It seems like you a bit jealous of mary kate and taylor's closeness as friends, start asking them to hang out (all 3 of you together) more often or hang out w/ your other friends.
- Response by happysummerz7101, A Social Butterfly, Girl, 14, Boston
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