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Why do I feel like this and how can I get over it?
Guys / 9:54 PM - Friday November 20, 2009

Why do I feel like this and how can I get over it?

My boyfriend is only the second guy I've kissed and dated.

But, he's probably kissed around 7 or 8 girls, & dated more than that.

And I just... idk. I feel so inexperienced and I hate it.
I absolutely hate feeling inexperienced, at anything.
So I guess I feel embarrassed and kind of jealous, but I honestly don't know why.

How can I get over this? Because it angers me so much that I start crying, and I really shouldn't be making this big of a deal out of something this small.
Any help would be wonderful.

- Asked by jeanii, A Social Butterfly, Girl, 14, Student

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Is he making you feel insacure? that might be it. If he likes you then he shouldn't pressure you if you don't want to do something. Most girls at 14 are just as "exsperienced" as you, so don't feel like you are diffrent or anything.

- Response by pinkzune7, An Eco Chick, Girl, 14

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you dont need experience to be loved. so what if hes had other girls. You dont need to be too exoerienced yet. If he realy cares for you he wont care if you can do make out tricks. whatever you do dont cheat on him to collect experience. If you aren t ready for some thing dont do it.

- Response by A Guy Critical, Girl, 17

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well apperently those 7 or 8 girls dont evn matter anymore , hes with you!* lucky! and he probably doesnt care if ur not experienced guys like being able to teach girls new things that the both of u will love,ull be able to make a special bond thre it.
you should be happy and confident!

i wish you the best of luck!
xoxo

- Response by zierras815, A Flirt, Girl, 15, Chicago

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if it makes you feel any better i only kissed one boy when i was 14..... its also sorta sad that he dated ppl and never kissed them

- Response by jakthefish, A Rock Star, Girl, 16, Boston, Artist / Musician / Writer

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